Believe in yourself

*"look like a bloody gay...lol"

Hello & welcome again in to my realm right at the point blank of reality...lol...to frequent readers, I would like to say my many thanks for "staying tune"..haha.. as for the new readers, welcome and please do comment and give your name^^

With no further delay, let me say about this really boring, yet a topic that has yet to inspire people to be so. Yes...it's bout believing yourself. Sounds simple, yet sometimes its not something easy to achieve especially with certain situations like....people not trusting you or probably you've failed in something for several times and you were asked to do it again.

Well, the best example that people give these days as motivation is nothing more than upcoming President of the United States of America, Barrack Obama. Hey, no doubt he is a great man that he made it thru this elections but did you know the harsh comments and strong opposition. Why? look at him....His Black. That's the word, black. The US has been known for its discrimination towards colours, well, last time...haha...But look at it now, it was he that won the election, with plenty of supporters.

When i listened to his speech, it wasn't what he said in his speech that made me wanted to support him (of course, i can't vote for him), but it was the self confidence, the amount of believe that he gave himself that inspired people to believe in the changes that he could bring, the many crisis that he stumble upon them and make them disappear. That's the thing that made people believe in him.

I used to be one of the kind of people who never believed in myself in doing anything, in the end, I couldn't achieve anything. No doubt when try you might fail again, but for sure, everytime you try there is a chance that you will succeed, as what the saying of the Chinese says, everything has it's balance like yin and yang. If you don't try, you'll get no chance instead. So, which is better?^^

For another example, Nick Vujicic, which was introduced to by Belle. Now, that's a real man i tell you. I guess by looking at the video clip that I add below, you'll understand why I say so.










Do you get why you need that believe in yourself already? Well like Nick says be thankful with what you have. Because if you bad, you don't worth anything, then....what about him?^^

Think about it my friends. Take your time, look around you and learn to absorb^^ Like Nick said, Don't just wish, do it!! haha...which reminds me of the first movie of the Matrix. Morpheus told Neo, "Don't try to hit me and hit me." Get me? ^^

YES Man

No no no...don't get this title wrong...it ain't the same as the topic before... This is basically based on what I saw in the trailer for the movie 'YES' or 'Yes Man' from imdb.com, which it's main actor is carried by Jim Carrey.

Well, to be honest, from the first looks of it, it seems like another humour movie which we probably laugh our heads off knowing nothing at all like the old school flick acted by Jim Carrey. But to kinda think of it....how many or to some, how much (superbly in plurality...lol, no such words though) times that we say the word 'No' and how unlikely for us to say the word 'Yes'? well, in general, anything that comes to you...

In the trailer, Carl Allen (Jim Carrey) has the most negative characteristics and has always use the famous word of all....'No'...till he met Terrance Bundley (Terrance Stamp) who challenged him to say the word 'Yes' without saying any 'No' for a full year to everything...(to be honest, can't be to anything lah...haha...it would be purely stupid...sorry for the ill manner, anyway that's not the main point ^^)... At the part of the trailer which when he started to notice the changes in his life towards the positive side. This is where it had struck me. This is the point where we should change, this is the turning point, or at the very least, the U-turn towards a better, healthier lifestyle.

But seriously, have you really count on how many 'Yes' that you've said so far towards any opportunity or to any situations even talking to your friends or your own child?

As much as studies has made, the word 'Yes' is the most popular, positive word to everyone. But yet, as one ages, the lesser the word have been used, especially during times these days when everything is a risk, everything seems like as is its life threatening. Anything can cause thing to change inside out.

Even if it's so, why not take it as a change for the best instead for the worst?^^ this is the same logic used when someone asked you to look a glass filled with water, whether it is half full or half empty.

What i'm trying to say here is, give yourself a chance to be positive, give yourself a chance by just saying the word 'Yes'. Who knows, you might even have your very own life change for the best and having yourself to live your life to the max and enjoy it^^

so....Would you think you're life is like a glass half full or half empty? ^^ Do tell me ya...

Something to take note of...

(making the scene as if like in the cave from the matrix show....walking to the stage is me..not Morpheus..haha.. XD) Silence!!!! Hear me!!!

I shall say something that not many people like us or even younger that know anything about it... I believe that most of our parents are concern of the same thing....what is it? What is it that they are afraid of? Do you know? DO YOU KNOW EXACTLY????

People....hear me....what's most important now its the economics....the finance systems...and the other thing that people want it the most MONEY!!!! The section you all skip the most when we are reading the newspapers...what we read are just the normal news....the entertainment news and probably a bit of the world news....but how many has yet to bother about the current situation of the world's economics...

Yes!!! I'm taking about the current economic meltdown.... Does anyone know about the impact and how woould affect us? Do You All Know What's Gonna Happen If We Don't Do A Thing To Improve...To Understand?

I urge u all to seek for information....Make yourselfclear of the situation....Make yourself understand what's going on...Be aware..Be prepared as this will go on till the day we graduate and the 'best' things has yet to come...

People...follow me and lets make people understand of the current status....follow me and come with a campaign to help people around us to be aware to make us suit for the 'better' world ahead... WHO'S WITH ME? WHO'S WITH ME?!!!!

Do more than what I say

I went back to UTAR to get some books to study a bit during the holidays.... sad case eh? people wanting to be away from books but yet I still get books to read... I came across this book in the library....the title reads...




you read it...PLEASE DON'T JUST DO WHAT I TELL YOU!

When i read this title, it just smack right at the face...like WHOA!!! ain't kidding man...this book is good... This is something what most leaders, bosses or whatever high level ranking in management wants from their underlings.... Do more than just what they are suppose to do....

This is no different from our daily lifes too... do more not less nor the same par... truely soemthing that i've learnt during the last sem which pays off...well..thats all for now...check out that book if you even come across to it....i tell you..its a good one^^

Oops...mistake....

Yeah...like how my title spells....a mistake, a man-made error of what i meant by the meaning of a 'stand-alone complex'....probably i was just finding a more suitable, bombastic words to replace the word 'independent'.... but yeah...we still could not get away from the fact of what the real meaning of what this 'stand-alone complex' really stands for....

a 'stand-alone complex'...actions of individuals creating a seemingly concerted effort...initially it really seemed rather unrelated for some events but yet similar in some ways, actions or thoughtsthough sometimes its just unknown why do we use it at times...that's stand-alone complex....

How should I put it? hmmmm.... basically the title Anonymous....its part of the stand-alone complex that i'm trying to highlight... You don't know when, where or most importantly who really started with this title or name 'Anonymous'...basically it can just be anyone.... well there is still many more of how to explain what 'stand-alone complex means' will tell once i get more info...but for now...yeah....that's the brief idea of it^^

Changes

haha....i'm back...but this time i'm not going post something new...but rather repost something that i've posted somewhere else...so read and hope that you will understand....

I was browsing thru my friendster...which eventually i read my blogs that i once typed in my friendster... one that caught my eyes was da one rite after the general election....i wondered why did i blogged thr and not here....but anyway...to those who did not noe bout it..here it is...

Changes...its what everybody wants...changes in every aspects of life...But if you want a change, why don't work it out yourself instead of relying on people to do it for you, or change their course of their lives for you while you just shake your legs around...

This words came from my mind after a mixture of thoughts. Thoughts? What thoughts? Probably it seems a little weird for a person like me to actually think much about a matter, but then it just came out from my mind. My mom just described to me how people complain in the office of the new DUN. The things they complain, its not something that can't be done by their own hands, but why not do it themselves? Reason is simple, "It's their job to do it for us, let them do their job." From that are you telling me we have no responsibility at all into improving our own place? Our own habitat?

That's just as an example. People tend to rely on others to do changes while not doing anything themselves. Sad to say, I've meet up with some future adults which acted the same way which i mentioned. Don't meet up with their criteria? You're out! Not bloody welcomed anymore. Not much of the use to them anymore. Don't have to look at politics to see this kinda situation. It's known that some make friends to make sure that they change for the better and more, but some just misuses the needs of the change and hurt people when use of the friend has a purpose. A purpose once reach it limits then off you go. That's not what its suppose to be.

Some might think...a person will not change anything. For me, a person can change his/her self and eventually change the world itself. So change what you are able to change, don't leave for others. (ps: blogging in the middle of the night really ain't good...XD feeling sleeping liao...tata~~)



Changes....isn't something that everyone wants? like i posted before...everyone wants changes from almost every aspects...if its bad,v wan it good....if it's good, v wan it to be better... be as v noe...changes doesn't just come and does miracles for us for FREE... it doesn't just come knocking on your doorstep..."helloooo....changes is here..." well...if it does, i think most of us will freak out...coz v can't c changes physically.... XD (catch my drift? u can't c changes....if u can't c...whr is da voice coming from?)



I forgotten to add something after i posted the blog on friendster...well of coz after i read it only i notice....well...there is one more point dat i didn't mention in the blog... the thing is this....in our society...well to most of us now, campus life.... ppl tend to grumble at someone else bout ppl's lifestyle...the way ppl live....the way ppl bring themselves up...honestly speaking, i used to be one of dat kind of ppl...but now...i'm da one being discussed among ppl in my campus...not many ppl understand my way of living my life....but because of some certain individuals...some actually hated me and even condamned my style...the "best" ever comment so far...'tong...u r hopeless... get a life...change urself.." well...knowing this, i think most ppl if were to meet up wif such 'comments' they would get real mad n angry at things n etc,etc... well...knowing my old self....i would hav trashed the person...haha...but now..actually accepted it...i changed but i dont change for their sake...i didn't change to suit their taste... i change for the better me...a me which i am comfortable wif n i believe many r too... u c...wats most important in life about changes in ppl around u...is not about wanting ppl to change just suit your taste....(well if everyone change to be da same...isn't it gonna be boring? then wat for v r different from each other once born?) the important thing is changing urself to understand and to accept wat ppl say and how they live n etc, etc...coz if u keep wanting ppl to change for ur opinion and if the person doesn't change isn't gonna be frustrating...n like dat...a friendship would just be ruined....so..y bother doing so? ^^



so...change..for urself...towards the society...towards future ahead...n most importantly...comfortable wif urself....n mayb..if u r lucky..someone who is feeling comfortable wif who u r would just come along^^

The 'yes' man...

The first time i heard of this term, i was like..."what the....what's that suppose to mean?" But from what it sounds like...I realise that the meaning is actually very simple....a person who only says yes... At one point of the view, its good...But when it comes to hierarchy of power and authorities in certain aspects, its no longer what is suppose to seems like...to the chinese, its called "cleaning/polishing people's shoes"...when it comes into decision making and just follow with what people thinks you should do without thinking twice whether you should do or not....to people, its called brainless..(please excuss me for my rudeness, just being straight-forward^^ hope you don't mind)

For me, I won't do anything much but only to tell them....every single one of us are just like computer's operating system....Which what we known as stand-alone systems....We are like computer AIs...learn what we learn, digest them but analyse them at the same time too....we are given brains to think, to analyse and also to act to out thought, which ever is rational and for the good of us....

I've watched Ghost-in-the-Shell...well...practically, so far of what i've watched, i've understand this point...with a certain degree of confidence and faith in yourself....we are able to make a difference for ourselves if we are able to think and do things on our own... and just being a 'yes' man/girl or whatever it is... aren't like computers which some of the programs act on reponses and commands... but like what i've mentioned...we aren't like computers...we are all stand-alone complexes....we are able to stimulate, find answer, find solutions, able to think for what is rational to our bodies ourselves....that's what makes us complicated, makes us differ from almost anything else in this world...

WAKE UP! WAKE UP i say...keep yourself together....non of us are follower who only blindly say yes....we are not people who just follow other's opinion blindly....we aren't born to be followers...that's what i can say.... What i meant as stand-alone complex is that no matter what it is, we are still able to move on with or without people's support.... We live up to our own lives and not living on others nor people living to us...we are able to descriminate what's good and what's bad for us.... That's what i meant by stand-alone...

I urge those who thinks of the status of where placing whoever beside us to be controlled or to control others as you think to change your way of thinking, and relate yourself more to reality....this world is full of this phrase... "What goes around, comes around"...

You don't need to have the abilities nor the capabilities of being a leader to do so....you are a leader of your own...only your are able to be firm and to change your and only yourself...the rest is up to others....to do for themselves....do not try to push nor do not try to harm others when trying to persuade them to follow you....act on yourself before thinking acting on others... in a rude manner... "Mind Your Own Business"...

Well..back into studying my microbiology for tomorrow's quiz....JA~~ ^^