Song for share

Friday, March 16, 2012

Listen and expect less

I was asked of this question: Why wouldn't my MAN share his problems with me? Why is he hiding it from me?

To be frank, I believe lately its unfair to say that guys are the ones who do not understand girls. Its rather both sides now.

I remember watching a short clip on scenarios when girls asked their 'men' on what are they thinking. I would agree to that, partially. The other half, I won't not really put it as ego, but rather I would ask this: Gals, are you able to sit down, listen to your man calmly while he whines and complains like you do? And when I say calmly, it would include that you would not stop him in the middle of the whole 'sharing' process and say that he is long winded, or having the thought that he is weak and unable to protect you and all sorts of excuses that one can come up with?

Food for thought.

Thats the reason why more and more guys are not willing to share their problems or even rather find someone else to talk about their problems even if the person would only just sit and listen.

Sad fact of life.