This a question asked by one of my friend, depressed and sad over the situation that who she have thought to be her best friend has done something that is showing none the less being less sincere as a friend.
"What does it takes to be a friend?" This should be the question, i felt. Sometimes don't you ever felt that you could find a book with the title: "Dummies guide to be a Good Friend." or even "Dummies guide to True Friendship" and pass to the person who you thought as a good friend that has done something a friend shouldn't have done?
I had my Toxicology tutorial last Wednesday and my lecturer had something that is really true about having friends. "A good friend is the one who stabs u in front while makes you feel good, changes you. The one who acts in front and stabs you on the back is not a friend." Though questioned myself why does she ever use the word stab...haha....
Anyway its quite true, a true friend will never do anything bad to you or even neglect you, they would tell you straight at the face on your problems and at the same time advices and helps you on the way. A true friend will never forgets a friend, and will ask their friend for anything though the chances might be slim without even a second thought. A true friend will never forgets a friend when there is something worth sharing and would not both about their status and ranking in this "dog bites dog" society. True friends will look after each others back, help each other and never once abandon one no matter how bad is he or she.
Well, that is practically what i think a true friend should be. Not just fulfilling one criteria i mentioned but all has to be done at all times, never once forget or neglect. Now, let me ask you a question, "Are you really a True Friend to your friends? Did you fulfill what has to be done?" Don't have to answer me but to yourself^^
One word of advice to end this blog: Be truthful to your friends^^ Cherish them
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